Strengths – Reflection
Self-Awareness & Career Direction • Strengths — Practical Exercise
Find Your Top Strengths in 30 Minutes Using Your Own Work History
Self-Awareness & Career Direction — Practical Exercise
The deep dive this week makes the case that your strengths are already visible in your history — you just haven’t been trained to read that history as evidence. This exercise gives you a structured way to do exactly that. You’re going to look back at real moments of strong, energizing performance, find the patterns across them, and walk away with a short list of named strengths you can actually use. Set aside 30 minutes, grab something to write with, and work through the steps below.
The Exercise
- Collect your peak moments — Think back across your career (or your education, volunteer work, or side projects if you’re earlier in your career). Identify 5 to 8 moments where you did your best work — moments that felt engaging, produced a solid outcome, and left you feeling more alive than drained. These don’t have to be big wins. A meeting that went well, a problem you quietly solved, a project you organized from scratch — all of it counts. Write a one-line description of each.
- Describe what you were actually doing — For each moment, go deeper than the job title or the project name. Write down the specific activity: were you synthesizing information? Persuading someone? Designing a system? Coaching a colleague? Spotting a flaw others had missed? The more specific the verb, the more useful this step becomes. Avoid abstract words like “leading” or “managing” — get to the actual activity inside those words.
- Apply the energy test — For each moment, rate how you felt while doing it on a simple 1–3 scale: 1 = drained, 2 = neutral, 3 = energized. Be honest — you’re not trying to look impressive here. You’re trying to find the real signal. Only keep moments rated 3 for the next step.
- Find the patterns — Look at the moments rated 3 and read through the specific activities you wrote in step 2. What shows up more than once? What themes connect two or three of your best moments? Look for the recurring verb, the consistent kind of problem, the type of person or context that keeps appearing. These patterns are your strength candidates.
- Name your top 3 to 5 strengths — Write a plain-language name for each pattern you found. Not adjectives (avoid “analytical” or “creative”) — write a short phrase that describes what you actually do: “untangling complex problems,” “building trust quickly with new people,” “turning vague briefs into structured plans.” Specific names are far more useful than category labels.
What to Do Next
Take your named strengths and test them. Find one more example in your history for each one — a moment you haven’t already listed. If you can find it easily, the pattern is real. If you struggle, that strength candidate might need a different name or might not be as central as you thought. Once you have 3 to 5 strengths with 2 or 3 evidence examples each, you have a foundation you can use in interviews, in career conversations, and in evaluating whether a new opportunity actually fits who you are.
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